“Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me;and whoever does not take up the cross and follow me is not worthy of me. Those who find their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake will find it. Whoever welcomes you welcomes me, and whoever welcomes me welcomes the one who sent me. Whoever welcomes a prophet in the name of a prophet will receive a prophet’s reward; and whoever welcomes a righteous person in the name of a righteous person will receive the reward of the righteous; and whoever gives even a cup of cold water to one of these little ones in the name of a disciple—truly I tell you, none of these will lose their reward.” (Mt 10:37-42)
These are the last two paragraphs of the Mission Discourse which takes up all of chapter 10 in the gospel of Matthew. If we look at the whole chapter as one unit, we could hear Jesus saying to us:
I’m sending you out, giving you authority to be in the world an extension of the mission you have seen Me carrying out: proclaiming that the Kingdom of heaven is at hand, healing, curing, raising the dead, driving out demons, teaching, loving, forgiving (v. 1, 7)
BUT…
You will find it no easier than I…. If they have called me Beelzebul, then they will also call you this (v. 25).
REMEMBER THIS…
Everyone who acknowledges Me before others I will acknowledge before My heavenly Father (v. 32).
This is the end, the telos, what it is that we look forward to: a relationship—to stand before the heavenly Father with and in Christ!
SO…
Don’t control things by packing up everything so you can rely on material things for your safety. Don’t move around trying to find the best situation for yourselves according to who will care for you the best. Don’t plan ahead for your defense (v. 9-23).
And then three times Jesus says:
Do not be afraid of them (v. 26, 28, 31). I am inviting you into a relationship. I am a link, in a sense, that brings you into direct relationship with the Father who loves you and cares for you more than the sparrows. Others—mother, father, siblings—may reject you when you enter into a relationship with Me, but my Father will never leave you without his help.
AND YOU TOO ARE A LINK NOW FOR OTHERS…
Be a strong link. Align yourself with Me. Do not grasp onto and preserve your identity, control, security, or self-centered desires pursued on your own terms. Instead, lose your life for My sake (v. 39), surrendering it in trust and obedience, giving up your own agenda to follow Me. Take the risk to love Me and trust Me. Only I can give you eternal life.
When you do this, you become a link for others to come to Me. When they receive you, they receive Me, and when they receive Me, they receive the one who sent Me (v. 40). Even if they just give you a dixie cup filled with cold water, this kindness to you will link them to Me (v. 42).
What does this look like in practice?
Élisabeth Leseur was a French laywoman whose diary and sacrificial love played a pivotal role in transforming her atheist husband, Félix Leseur, into a Catholic—and eventually a priest. Her husband, who aggressively promoted atheism, often mocked his wife and attempted to undermine her faith. She responded not with anger, but with quiet, patient love and prayer. She maintained a secret diary over many years, in which she recorded spiritual reflections and offered prayers for her husband’s conversion—offering her suffering for his soul.
As she suffered from cancer, Elisabeth wrote a final note to Félix predicting his eventual conversion:
“In 1905 I begged Almighty God to send me sufferings with which to pay the price of your soul… The day I die, that price will be paid… Greater love no woman hath than this…”
After her death in 1914, Félix discovered her diary and writings. He was deeply moved by the depth of her faith, love, and self-sacrifice. His heart gradually began to change, and a pilgrimage to Lourdes, made with the intent of disproving miracles, became the turning point of his spiritual journey. In 1917 he embraced Catholicism, joined the Dominicans, and was ordained a priest six years later.
Élisabeth Leseur’s cause for beatification was opened in 1934. She is a Servant of God.
You too are one of these links—connecting others to Jesus and his Father. Your story will look very different, your choices your own as Jesus leads you, and with you as a link in the world, Jesus is still able to walk about reaching others and bringing them into his relationship with the Father.
You too are commissioned by Jesus. Who is waiting for you to become this link for them?
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Praying with this Passage of Scripture
Lectio Divina is a way of listening to God as he speaks in his Word. It is a practice of communicating with God through Scripture and attending to God’s presence and what he wishes to tell us. In this slow and prayerful reading of the Word of God, we allow ourselves to be transformed by the Spirit who forms us into the image of Christ. There are four movements in Lectio Divina: Read (lectio), Meditate (meditation), Pray (oratio), Contemplate (contemplation).
Begin by finding a still space to pray. Breathe deeply and become quieter within. Abandon any agenda, worries or thoughts you bring to this prayer and entrust these things to the merciful care of God. Ask for the grace to be receptive to what God will speak to you through this Scripture reading. Grant me, Jesus Divine Master, to be able to know the mysteries of the kingdom of God and your unfathomable riches. Grant that your word penetrate my soul; guide my steps, and brighten my way till the day dawns and darkness dissipates, you who live and reign forever and ever Amen.
Read (lectio)
Begin by slowly and meditatively reading your Scripture passage out loud. Listen for a particular word or phrase that speaks to you at this moment and sit with it for a time.
Pray (oratio)
Read the text a third time. Listen for what God is saying to you. Speak heart to heart with God. Notice the feelings that this conversation with God raises up within you. Share with God what you notice about your response to this conversation. You may wish to return to repeating the phrase quietly and gently, allowing it to permeate you more and more deeply.
Contemplate (contemplatio)
Read the text a final time. Now be still and rest in God’s embrace. Ask God to give you a gift to take with you from this prayer. You might ask God if he is inviting you to do some action, for instance, make some change in your thoughts, attitudes or reactions, in the way you speak or how you treat others. Thank God for this gift and invitation as you conclude your prayer.





