I Need a Mother. I Need Mary. (John 19:25-34)

Meanwhile, standing near the cross of Jesus were his mother, and his mother’s sister, Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary Magdalene. When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple whom he loved standing beside her, he said to his mother, “Woman, here is your son.” Then he said to the disciple, “Here is your mother.” And from that hour the disciple took her into his own home.

John 19:25-34

The day after the Church celebrates the Feast of Pentecost and the coming of the Holy Spirit on the apostles gathered around Mary in the Cenacle, we are given this opportunity to take a step back and to prayerfully contemplate Mary as the Mother of the Church, Mother of the Redeemer and Mother of the Redeemed.

Mary brought Christ, His physical human body, into the world and thus gave birth in a mystical way to the Church, the Mystical Body of Christ. She stood with her Son in his passion and received his body in death as it was lowered from the cross and laid in a tomb. There is no way to fully appreciate the pain and intimacy of her heart, so pure and so holy, at this moment in which she receives from Jesus this motherhood of the redeemed, this charge to love and provide for his broken and wandering brothers and sisters for whom he offered his life.

I am one of these wandering disciples of Jesus. Sometimes I get lost. A lot of times I’m not able to withdraw my will from the aims and desires of the “old man.” Too often I hold on to this or that in aspects of my life where I haven’t the courage or strength to turn completely to Christ.

I need a mother.

I need Mary.

I need the Church,

Mary did not know any contagion of sin, as she was preserved whole and intact in her created nature from the first instant of her conception. In us holiness is found only in an imperfect way.

Mary, the Immaculate Conception, received, as a gratuitous gift, an original holiness, a holiness that she did not have to pursue throughout her life as the faithful do, who though “called to holiness” only arrive at a measure of holiness at the end of the journey. Mary alone is holy through original gift (Immaculate Conception) and through her own perfect conduct of life.

Mary is the icon of the holy Church. She encapsulates in herself all of the characteristics that the Church possesses. Christ gives holiness to his Mystical Body the Church, and then the Church, as a mother, brings forth children to God in the font of baptism, though we struggle with sin and concupiscence all our life.

Mary is Mother and icon of the Church. She is our Advocate, Mother, Teacher, and Queen.  Both Mary and the Church are the source of hope for us who are still on the way to our eternal home.

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Praying with this Passage of Scripture

Lectio Divina is a way of listening to God as he speaks in his Word. It is a practice of communicating with God through Scripture and attending to God’s presence and what he wishes to tell us. In this slow and prayerful reading of the Word of God, we allow ourselves to be transformed by the Spirit who forms us into the image of Christ. There are four movements in Lectio Divina: Read (lectio), Meditate (meditation), Pray (oratio), Contemplate (contemplation).

Begin by finding a still space to pray. Breathe deeply and become quieter within. Abandon any agenda, worries or thoughts you bring to this prayer and entrust these things to the merciful care of God. Ask for the grace to be receptive to what God will speak to you through this Scripture reading. Grant me, Jesus Divine Master, to be able to know the mysteries of the kingdom of God and your unfathomable riches. Grant that your word penetrate my soul; guide my steps, and brighten my way till the day dawns and darkness dissipates, you who live and reign forever and ever Amen.

Read (lectio)
Begin by slowly and meditatively reading your Scripture passage out loud. Listen for a particular word or phrase that speaks to you at this moment and sit with it for a time.

Pray (oratio)
Read the text a third time. Listen for what God is saying to you. Speak heart to heart with God. Notice the feelings that this conversation with God raises up within you. Share with God what you notice about your response to this conversation. You may wish to return to repeating the phrase quietly and gently, allowing it to permeate you more and more deeply.

Contemplate (contemplatio)
Read the text a final time. Now be still and rest in God’s embrace. Ask God to give you a gift to take with you from this prayer. You might ask God if he is inviting you to do some action, for instance, make some change in your thoughts, attitudes or reactions, in the way you speak or how you treat others. Thank God for this gift and invitation as you conclude your prayer.

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